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Need to escape a sociopath’s grip? See yourself through their eyes!

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Yup… you heard me right!

In order to pull yourself out from a sociopath’s control, and stop feeling the pangs of love that keep drawing you back…… put the emotional empathy that sets you apart from them to work on your behalf! Emotional empathy enables you to relate to the emotions of others. Take a good look at your relationship through their eyes, and you’ll never go back!

Continue reading Need to escape a sociopath’s grip? See yourself through their eyes!

Holiday Struggles- Lament and Loss

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My son contacted me on Thanksgiving

After an absence of eight years, he either decided to taunt me or absurdly thought that leaving me a voicemail message of “I love you” from a blocked phone, would be appreciated. As if that wasn’t painful enough…. Continue reading Holiday Struggles- Lament and Loss

Love you….. and your country! #MarriageFraud

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Marriage fraud for immigration is a heartbreaking con! Foreigners use it to shortcut access and citizenship… often to the US or Canada. Do the authorities step in to remove them when the fraud is reported? Of course not!

Trespass over a border…. it’s a quick trip back to your homeland. Trespass into someone’s life, no problem! Dennis McIntyre learned the hard way! Continue reading Love you….. and your country! #MarriageFraud

The Color Wheel of Conscience

Color wheel of conscience

Why do some people become psychopaths while other don’t? Here’s my take on how it all fits together…. Continue reading The Color Wheel of Conscience

Self Blame and Shame- the hallmarks of rape

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All types of rape create self blame and shame for victims. This statement from the Rape Treatment Center at the Santa Monica UCLA Medical Center– sums up the feelings that rape victims express:

Continue reading Self Blame and Shame- the hallmarks of rape

Comparing rape by fraud with date rape- Rochelle’s CAD Tale

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Disguise the drink, or disguise the character…. both manipulate and undermine self-determination

A commentor I’ll call Rochelle left this heartfelt post. It’s a clear indication of the harm in rape by fraud that comes directly from the mouth of a woman who’d previously been date raped, a form of the crime we readily recognize in today’s penal codes throughout the world.

I’m frequently told that to consider tricking a person into sex as a form of “sexual assault” is an insult toward victims of violent or date rape.  Continue reading Comparing rape by fraud with date rape- Rochelle’s CAD Tale

Catfish, Sociopath or Scammer? Kaitlin’s CAD TALE

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He’s just a scammer, not  a sociopath! You know…. a catfish con artist. Other than that, he’s a nice guy? Right?

Yup- that’s what the police officer told one recent victim when she described her harrowing run-in with the heartless con artist who defrauded her of sex, love and assets. I’ll call her Kaitlin.

Kaitlin met her Romeo, Kenneth, at work. He was the technologist Continue reading Catfish, Sociopath or Scammer? Kaitlin’s CAD TALE

Free.. from rape…. at last?

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My wish for every rape by fraud victim, as we celebrate the independence that set our country free, is freedom from the pervasive bondage of defilement that binds hearts and impedes souls. Continue reading Free.. from rape…. at last?

Just Released- The Hand That Feeds You

Katherine Russel Rich, The Inspiration behind "The Hand That Feeds You"
Katherine Russel Rich, The Inspiration behind “The Hand That Feeds You”

Today, the NY Times featured a new novel about something not so new, and not so novel……  sexual assault by fraud.

The Hand That Feeds You

Purchase it today along with the true life tale of sexual assault by fraud:

Carnal Abuse by Deceit

Join the reddit discussion http://redd.it/3c4fq3

 

Happy Truth in Romance Day! The Only Protection is Detection!

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HAPPY TRUTH IN ROMANCE DAY TO EVERYONE!

Romantic partners will rarely fear running into a psychopath. But the likelihood that they will do so is unexpectedly high. And internet dating provides the perfect opportunity to create harm!

Sandra L Brown, MA, author of Women Who Love Pshychopaths, considers “psychopathy” the number one health crisis in the US. The amount of victims she calculates is staggering.  Continue reading Happy Truth in Romance Day! The Only Protection is Detection!

A Great Read on Oxytocin- Love Addiction

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Rachel Sanoff deserves a medal for her article on Bustle! Must reading for everyone who ever wondered why they were stuck Continue reading A Great Read on Oxytocin- Love Addiction