Anti “Rape Justice” Is Law- And the reason we have so much sexual assault

RAINN tells us that sexual assault happens every 98 seconds, and it happens to a child every 11 minutes. Anti “rape justice” language and attitudes are embedded in our laws. It’s been with us century after century because sexually amoral law makers deliberately and callously made it this way – Here’s a list of known … Continue reading Anti “Rape Justice” Is Law- And the reason we have so much sexual assault

Sofia’s Story- Violent vs. Non-Violent Sexual Assault

Without the recognition of “consent” and its impact in sex, often nay-sayers ridicule survivors who suffered non-violent forms of sexual assault. I received this message today from a brave woman I’ll call Sofia, in order to protect her identity. What follows are her words:  “I’m so grateful to have found your talk on Ted Talks. … Continue reading Sofia’s Story- Violent vs. Non-Violent Sexual Assault

#Weinstein and #Cruciani- Two P’s (for Predator) in a Pod!

July 30- Today’s court date for Harvey Weinstein has been postponed ’til September 20th. What will happen then?  Superior Court Justice Jame Burke will deliver his decisions on motions that have been filed “off-calendar” by the prosecution and the defense. Those motions could include a decision to admit evidence of “prior bad acts” into testimony. … Continue reading #Weinstein and #Cruciani- Two P’s (for Predator) in a Pod!

Does a rape victim have to expressly say “NO!” Rowan Radio Interview

In her very first question for our radio interview, Kaity Kline, Public Affairs Director for Rowan Radio On Demand, 89.7 WGLS FM, wanted to know; Why is it sexual assault even when the victim doesn’t expressly say “no” – like in the case of accused sexual predator, Harvey Weinstein?  Here’s my explanation. 

Validation at Last! Cosby convicted!

Who’s laughing now!!! For Cosby’s countless victims, and I say “countless” because I’m sure there were far more who didn’t reveal their personal stories for a myriad of reasons, recovery just took a giant step forward!  Defilement makes you feel dirty all the way to the core of your being. Our reproductive organs are a primal … Continue reading Validation at Last! Cosby convicted!

Hear Us ROAR! #WomensMarch2018 #MeToo #TimesUp and #FGKIA!

Amid shouts of “Hey-hey, ho-ho, Donald Trump has gotta go!” and “Trump is not my President, You’re fired White House resident!” throngs of women, men and children wound our way through the streets of midtown Manhattan yesterday. The sea of hopeful faces marched forward in solidarity with hope for renewed political integrity and equality for … Continue reading Hear Us ROAR! #WomensMarch2018 #MeToo #TimesUp and #FGKIA!

What Important Book is NY’s Governor Cuomo Reading?

January 30th. What a day! Zipping through the Taconic Parkway’s twists and turns, on a crisp, sunny, winter morning, was just the exhilarating start! The best was yet to come! I was headed to Albany for double duty- to meet Assembly Member, Rebecca Seawright‘s new Legislative Director, Cheryl Couser, in order to

What do Trump U and Lying to Get Laid have in Common?

  FRAUD! Reported by Ron Blitzer at DailyNewz, Eric Schneiderman, Attorney General of New York State had this to say about Trump University…… “It’s fraud.  This is straight up fraud! It’s like selling people something you say is a Mercedes and it turns out to be a Volkswagen.  And even

Step Up NY!!

If a romance scam happened to you in NY, please contact me! Law & Order SVU did a great job of presenting a rape by fraud case this past Wednesday. If you’ve yet to see the episode, here’s the link. You can watch it right here on your computer! Enough for fiction…. We need real life … Continue reading Step Up NY!!

Legislators of NY State Introduced to Catfishing!

Catfish (Catphish) Profiles, false personation in e-dating, Facebook, and other internet descriptions, to embroil victims in romance scams, is now part of the permanent record of NY State’s Assembly. On October 21st, I provided testimony to create awareness and, hopefully, plant seeds that will bring about change.

The Voice of Supporters- Stop Sex By Fraud!

Nay-Sayers are not the only voices! We’ve heard all the nay-saying silliness that folks who oppose “Sexual Assault by Fraud” laws come up with. And we’ve seen the ridiculous scenarios that the media creates in order to sensationalize, by stoking the fire of opposition…..

CAD Tale- Suki’s Story

Lack of emotional empathy = shallow, superficial emotions Sociopaths weave beautifully seductive tales. Problem is, they don’t mean it the way you absorb it. When they embrace you and speak endearingly of “forever,” they’re only thinking of the immediate gratification they’ll receive today. They want the adoration and sexual surrender you reserve for those you deeply love, and they … Continue reading CAD Tale- Suki’s Story

#NOW Is Outraged at the NYPD!” #TakeRapeSeriously!”

FOLLOW-UP Video of today’s demonstration. Click Here! INITIAL POST I just received an important notice from the NYC chapter of NOW. The cause of NOW’s outrage is the statements made by Commanding Officer, Captain Peter Rose when explaining why only 2 out of 13  recent rape cases were solved. He said: “Some of them were Tinder, some of them … Continue reading #NOW Is Outraged at the NYPD!” #TakeRapeSeriously!”

Catcalls Banned in Argentina!

The femicide crisis in South America is staggering…….. According to the BBC- a woman dies from femicide every other day in Columbia, every day in Argentina, 5 per day in Mexico and 15 per day in Brazil. The culture of femicide is so ingrained in the lifestyle that on Wednesday, the City Council in Buenos Aires, Argentina, passed … Continue reading Catcalls Banned in Argentina!

Fraud 101- When Lies Become a Crime

Lying to someone is not a crime. Lying in order to take something you otherwise would not get is. Yes, people GIVE things to scammers all the time. But their act of giving is invalidated by the deception that caused them to do so. The victim’s consent is considered ineffective under the law. A crime, not … Continue reading Fraud 101- When Lies Become a Crime